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Great goal setting is the most important thing you can do to get on and stay on your path to success!

 

To know where you are going, to create a guiding light to steer by, write out and use your goals according to the following formula.  The first few stages are a bit matter of fact.  You might even find them a challenge.  That's great!  You are going to have something of great value come from this task and by the time you get to the end it will be exciting and fun.  Here are the steps to the best goal creation formula there is:

 

1. Set specific goals. 

For your weight:  How much weight do you intend to lose.  By when?  What will your final body fat percentage be?  How much will you weigh?

For your body:  What will your measurements be?  What size clothes will you wear?  What condition will you be in? What skills will you have? What will you be able to do?

For your eating habits:  What changes will you put in place?  How many calories a day will you eat?  What range of macro nutrients are you aiming for?

For your exercise habits:  What plan will you put in place and use?

For your emotional state:  How do you want to feel?

For your life:  what else do you want to achieve which will come with your new body?

 

2.  Set measurable goals: Make sure the goals you wrote above can be objectively weighed or measured.

 

3.  Set scary-big goals.  Make sure your goal is what you really want, not just a low level expectation of what you think you can achieve.  Your goal should be exciting and even a bit scary.  Your goal should thrill you!  Think big!

 

4.  Set realistic deadlines.  Two pounds a week is a high goal!  Trying for more than that is looking for trouble and disappointment.  Setting a very slow pace might cause you discouragement.  Find the happy medium between too little and too much.

 

5.  Set long and short term goals.  Your goal list should include long term and short term goals.  Suggested goals are

  1. Your final long term goal
  2. Your one year goal (if you have a lot to lose)
  3. Your three month goals (creates urgency, something to strive for)
  4. Weekly goals (body fat % / weight / measurements)
  5. Daily goals (amount of exercise, recording food eaten, maintaining your calorie level, developing new habits, etc.)

 

6.  Connect emotion to the goal.  What is the emotional purpose behind the goal?  Ask "What's important about my reaching my goal?"  And "Why is that important?"

 

After you have all the specifics about your goals from steps 1-5, rewrite them with as much emotional impact as possible.  What feelings will you experience when you have accomplished these things?

 

7.  Make sure your goals are not conflicting.

 

8.  Write out all your goals in the form of affirmations.  These need to be written in the first person, in present tense and positive language.  Example:  I am so very happy and proud I weigh 130 pounds and look fantastic in my silky red dress.

 

9.  Read your affirmations (goal list) out loud at least twice a day and always keep your goals on your mind.  Write out your goals, by hand, once a day.  Tap on the thymus point or your favorite point while you read them.  Repeat, repeat, repeat!!

 

10.  Read your goals with faith.  Believe you will achieve them.  If you don't yet believe them, tap on "even though I'm not sure I can achieve these goals I deeply and completely love and accept myself.  In addition, "act as if" they are already achieved.  Keep this up and you will believe you can achieve them.

 

11.  Visualize!  As you read your goals, let your imagination fill them out into multi-sensory images.  Imagine them as already achieved:  see and hear and feel and taste and smell all the wonderful success images!  Let yourself get excited!  Let yourself really experience the joy of your success, satisfaction and pride.


Have fun with this!  Enjoy the wonderful images and the great feelings of getting to these big accomplishments!  Feel it as already accomplished.  What a great feeling that is.  Let your goal focused minutes, experienced twice a day, be a delightful time for you.  You can have a great start and end to your day this way and you will be putting in place all the necessary elements for your success.  Why?  How?  Because you are training your subconscious mind to steer in the directions you have chosen and you are focusing on the positive--which will attract more positive to you.  This is not just a win-win situation; it's a multi-win situation!

When you have your goals chosen, seen and felt you are well on your way to success.  Remember: great goal setting is the most important thing you can do to get on and stay on your path to success!

 

 

This material is adapted from Burn the Fat Feed The Muscle by Tom Venuto.

Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Dec. 29, 2008.

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One of the most important questions you can ask is
“Does this suit my intentions?”

The word “this” refers to any choice you are making that affects your goals. In the store, when you have those cookies in your hand, ask yourself, “Does buying these suit my intentions?” If you are thinking of watching a movie rather than joining the EFT session, ask yourself “Does this choice suit my intentions?”

Let your higher self answer the question and make your best choice.

The more you ask the question, the more you will be guided by that smart voice that helps you maintain your commitment to yourself.

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EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques)
is a method to release negative feelings naturally.
It is an emotional form of acupressure.
With your fingertips, you tap certain energy points on your body while you are "tuned in" to your problem.

Gary Craig, the founder of EFT:

"I hope this doesn't sound too grandiose, but I've been doing energy healing work since 1991 and my jaw still drops at the results. I've lost count of the number of phobias, panic/anxiety attacks, traumatic memories, guilt, grief and physical ailments that have been elegantly relieved (often in minutes) by this procedure. Even though EFT violates just about every conventional belief out there, the results remain remarkable. EFT isn't perfect, of course. We don't get 100%. But it usually works well and the results are sometimes spectacular. It often works where nothing else will.

We are still learning why EFT works so well. It centers around the profound effects of the body's subtle energies using the theory that the cause of all negative emotions is a disruption in the body's energy system. Accordingly, EFT is an emotional form of acupuncture except that we don't use needles. Instead, we tap with the fingertips to stimulate certain meridian energy points while the client is "tuned in" to the problem.

The subtle energies that circulate throughout the body have been largely ignored (until recently) by western scientists. As a result, our use of them for emotional and spiritual healing has been sparse at best. With EFT, however, we consider these subtle energies to be the front running cause of emotional upsets. As a result, we generate results that are FAR beyond those of conventional methods."

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