Lose Weight with me and EFT

Fun and slimming that lasts

We are enabling long-lasting slimming and significant life changes through EFT and the deliberate application of the Law of Attraction.

Introduction to EFT


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Members

  • Mark Gillam
  • Irene
  • spiritedstrider
  • Avihu Kiselstein
  • Carol Solomon
  • Kenneth Taylor
  • MYEFTUS
  • Dora  Morrill
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  • Christina Taime
  • Maryann
  • MaryLou Minard
  • Alice
  • Margaret Welch
  • Tamara
  • kymberley
  • Nada Daher
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  • Rhonda Memmer
  • Cathy

EFT on video


Calling for success

Our EFT sessions will be emailed to you 4 times a week: Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday.

Plan on 15-20 minutes of high powered work! This gives a big benefit packed into a small piece of your day.
 

What is Lose Weight with me and EFT?

Do you want to slim down and get rid of the blocks to staying at your healthy weight? If so, then you are in the right place!

This is a program which
Dr. Nili Marcia developed to enable her own slimming and yours!
• Gives you expertly guided EFT sessions for slimming via audio recordings, which you may listen to at any time.
• Enables having your specific weight reduction challenges worked on.
Supports you in achieving your weight goals.
• Facilitates a community spirit and mutual support.
Teaches basic EFT. No previous knowledge necessary.

Latest Activity

Well done! You are juggling a lot of challenges right now. Thank you for still having time to help us out, too! :)
1 hour ago
Ilana Wolfson added a blog post
Well, I have sold my car, and bought a far less expensive one (to get cash out), painted my son’s room, and showed my current house to two families (unfortunately, I’m still looking for a renter). We were pre-approved for a mortgage with four differ…
2 hours ago
kymberley added 2 photos
3 hours ago
Well, I came close to posting the video of me contra dancing. The clip is 27 mbytes, and 5 is the max allowed. I tried to edit the video down, but access was denied :( I'm going to another dance this Saturday, and I'll be more specific with the 'cam…
3 hours ago
Thank you for that clarification and Aimee that was really good to know about your brother. I am still attending the gym or an exercise class 5 days a week so I am fitter than I have ever been, hopefully this means my muscle mass is higher. I will t…
3 hours ago
Kymberley, The BMI was created as a tool for the health professional. It is a quick assessment tool, to try and determine if a person is at an increased health risk due to excess weight. The categories were based on the average health risks of thous…
6 hours ago
Kymberley, I know what you mean. The last time I went, the nurse pointed out that I was on the edge of being overweight! After losing 70 lbs, and being the smallest size that is available sometimes here....I just had to laugh. Remember, BMI does not…
11 hours ago
kymberley added a blog post
I had to go to hospital for a checkup and the nurse wrote on her notes that I am Obese. I found this extremely insulting what a horrid word which is degrading and made me feel like a failure. When I look in the mirror I admit I am not happy with my…
11 hours ago
Hi Aimee, well done you and thank you so very much for taking the time to write out exactly what you have been tapping on... it does so help those of us who are slow to understand how to put EFT sessions together without direction... hmmm a thought…
19 hours ago
Christina Taime Today I am happy, the sun is shining again and I am on track to releasing all the excess weight.. life is great....
19 hours ago
Christina Taime added a blog post
Well, I feel very good about last week as I have released 2.4kg for the week..... yippee!!!! and that is with very little walking as it has been raining torrentially for 5 days... I have leaks in my roof and overflowing gutters into the house.... me…
19 hours ago
Today I am grateful for the universe who gave me what I asked for - True Love - even though it turned up in an unexpected way :-D being able to be patient and calm in waiting for things to work out. being alive! my children who are just amazing. bei…
yesterday
Thank you Nili, and I really hope things are going better for you. You have had so many tough things to deal with. I have started eating 2 raw cabbage leaves before dinner each day, Nibbling those while waiting for meal to be ready, and taking less…
yesterday
on Sunday
Aimee Lauezzari Gary Zukav says "Your anger is a clear, unmistakable sign that you are in pain."
on Sunday
Aimee Lauezzari added a blog post
Two days ago, I was feeling uncertain, a bit stirred up, and having trouble raising my vibration. I had had PMS for about 3 days, and was in day 2 of a sinus infection. I was struggling with letting go and feeling overwhelmed by information (books…
on Saturday
Hi Joy, You've chosen some excellent things to work on. Go go girl! There is something which stands out for me and I will mention it and you use it or toss it out depending on how it fits you. You have been struggling with what I know a difficult…
on Friday
However good or bad a situation is, there is one thing you can count on, it will change! Rather than dodge it, welcome it in.
on Friday
Hello all, Thank you Nili, I feel truely blessed to have you and this website to help me. I didn't manage to get my eating under control yesterday, but I did do lots of exercise, so that's a positive and I didn't feel like I needed to be sick beca…
on Friday
Today I'm grateful for ~ the sun on my face ~ good friends photo by Mayrie
on Friday

How Does EFT Work?

Correcting the imbalance in the body’s electrical system is done by a pattern of tapping, rubbing, or holding different stress reduction points located on the face, upper body, and hands while focusing on a problem or negative emotion.

This process stimulates the energy around the meridian points causing a correction in the imbalance of the energy system and a simultaneous collapse of the negative emotion that the person is “tuned into” at the time.

Ready, Set, Prepare...

EFT preparation Look at the short EFT video on this page (upper left) if you are new to EFT.

Keep notes Make a place to keep notes of the things on this list. This can be in your member page blog if you wish and here’s something cool: you can use the privacy settings so no one else can see what you write. You can keep notes in a diary or journal you already use or start one just for the purpose. (The privacy setting link for your blog is on the right side of your page, under welcome and your name.)

But please do make a special place to keep notes. In addition to the basics of your initial weight, measurements and goals, also record thoughts about yourself, your body, any EFT sentences which were very good for you and especially, any which really bothered you.

Weigh yourself Do a program initial weigh in, in the morning, preferably nude, after going to the bathroom. This is your lowest weight of the day. Record this, your starting weight. Try to use a scale you will be able to continue to use through out your weight loss since scales can differ quite a bit.

Don’t weigh yourself After your first weigh in only weigh your self weekly or less. Not at all is fine too if you see you are making some progress. It is very frustrating to watch your food intake carefully, exercise and see no change on the scale. Weight loss averages out over time. You will see loss from week to week, except when you hit a plateau as we virtually always do. Women also have hormonally driven weight fluctuations. Relax! It is going to come off!

Measure yourself Take these measurements and write them down:
neck
women: bust, at the largest part
women: chest just under bust
men: chest at largest part
waist
belly, the largest part
hips, where they are largest
upper arm circumference
wrist
thigh, at the largest part
knee
calf, at the widest part
ankle

Plan your eating program What are you going to eat to help yourself to lose weight? Get help with this if needed. Make food choices which suit your digestion and body type. Please DO NOT make changes which are too sudden or too extreme! Think about what you eat, in what combinations, what you drink, when you eat, how much you eat, how fast you eat and decide on changes where you need them. Write them down.

Plan your physical activity program Do you need to increase your physical activity? Weight loss without exercise gives skinny flab! Join a gym, find a class to take, dust off your exercise tapes, find a TV program to exercise to or make some other plans to begin to increase your physical activity. Mini trampoline is great for home use Make sure you start off gently if you are out of shape!

Get a physical exam Please go see your doctor before beginning this program for a general health exam, baseline blood chemistry, blood pressure check, etc. Tell them of your weight loss plans and ask when you should have your next check up.

Photographs Have new pictures taken of yourself. These are your before shots so do your face and your whole body from the front, back and side. If you have the nerve take swim suit shots as well.

Visualize your success Help your subconscious mind take you to your goal by visualizing your self at your goal weight. Use all your senses! See the image, feel the feelings, odors, the flavors and the sounds which go with reaching your goal!!

Very important: if, when you visualize yourself at your goal weight you feel ANY resistance, discomfort, concern or other negative feelings, including the thoughts “I can’t” or “I’ll never get there” write them down and SEND THEM TO ME by email or posting on my page. These are the resistances which we will release using EFT—and we can only work on what we recognize!

Choose goals Decide on your weight loss and body goals. In addition to a specific amount of weight loss you might want to reach certain measurements. What fat percentage do you want to have? You might also want certain abilities, like being able to run up a flight of stairs easily or reducing medications.

Evaluate your goals It is damaging to your body to lose weight too rapidly and damaging to your motivation to lose weight too slowly. It’s important to find a happy medium. The more weight you have to lose the greater your initial loss generally is, but after the first few weeks everyone should be losing no more than 2 pounds or 1 kilo a week for the heaviest individuals and more like a maximum of 1pound or 500 grams a week for most people. Remember, slower weight loss gives your skin time to shrink to fit your new shape!

If you want to lose 40 pounds or 18 kilos you can expect it to take you about a year. Now don’t get frustrated or upset about this!! If it bothers you to think of working on your weight for a year don’t! Just think of today and perhaps, this week. The time will pass anyway.

Commit to your goals Make a promise to yourself that this time you will stick with your program as long as is necessary to succeed. Let yourself focus on how good it will be to reach your goals and make a solemn commitment. Write down your promise to yourself in your blog, journal or diary.

Congratulate yourself! Isn’t it great we are making this plan and commitment? I am so happy you have decided to join me and am looking forward to my new body—and yours as well. Good for me! Good for you!! Good for us!!!

Forum

sue tiritilli

GRATITUDE 62 Replies

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Aimee Lauezzari

Calories In vs Calories Out 3 Replies

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Dr. Nili Marcia

THIS will make a big difference! 4 Replies

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Blog Posts

Ilana Wolfson

What I've been up to

Well, I have sold my car, and bought a far less expensive one (to get cash out), painted my son’s room, and showed my current house to two families (unfortunately, I’m still looking for a renter). We were pre-approved for a mortgage with four
different companies (don’t ask, but we are going with the last one). My husband made an offer on a house in
California, it was accepted, the inspection turned up only that the bathtub
needs more caulking around it, and the showerhead, w

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Posted by Ilana Wolfson on February 9, 2010 at 9:50pm — 1 Comment

kymberley

Obese???

I had to go to hospital for a checkup and the nurse wrote on her notes that I am Obese. I found this extremely insulting what a horrid word which is degrading and made me feel like a failure.


When I look in the mirror I admit I am not happy with my size but I never thought I would be classed as Obese.


I am a size 16 and five foot 10inches tall but my BMI is 35 which makes me Obese in their terms.


Thank goodness for this support group and EFT as before I would have sunk in

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Posted by kymberley on February 9, 2010 at 12:52pm — 3 Comments

Christina Taime

End of my first week of 6 week challenge

Well, I feel very good about last week as I have released 2.4kg for the week..... yippee!!!! and that is with very little walking as it has been raining torrentially for 5 days... I have leaks in my roof and overflowing gutters into the house.... messy!! However, thanks to LIana and the Fidgetsizers I managed to keep my body moving and had fun at the same time. I have noticed that you have a gratitude section and have enjoyed reading them all... I used to write out my gratitudes each night but n… Continue

Posted by Christina Taime on February 9, 2010 at 4:44am

Aimee Lauezzari

#309 I'm down, blue and depressed

Two days ago, I was feeling uncertain, a bit stirred up, and having trouble raising my vibration. I had had PMS for about 3 days, and was in day 2 of a sinus infection. I was struggling with letting go and feeling overwhelmed by information (books and websites). I had a lot of thing to tap on and meditate about.




I decided to let Nili get me going :) and started with #309 I'm down, blue and depressed. I found things that resonated in the tapping.




* O

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Posted by Aimee Lauezzari on February 6, 2010 at 11:45pm — 1 Comment

Joy Flanagan

Stepping Into February

Hello All,

Firstly, I want to apologise for not being around for a while. I'll read through recent posts and add my comments in a few minutes.

I've had a difficult couple of weeks. And I'm afraid that despite my best intentions, I wasn't able to 'get back on the wagon' and sort myself out. As I sit here writing this, I'm feeling pretty numb and washed out.

My situation at work hasn't improved, and I'm afraid that my response to it all was to fall back on old habits, eat badly, block out every… Continue

Posted by Joy Flanagan on February 4, 2010 at 11:47am — 4 Comments

Notes

17 Second Magic Technique

by Dr. Nili and Ilana


17 Second Magic is the name given by Dr. Nili to a technique learned from Abraham. It is actually a naturally occurring, energy changing condition, deliberately applied. The idea is simple. When you notice you aren't feeling bright, happy or positive you just deliberately think some thought which feels a

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Created by Ilana Wolfson Jun 15, 2009 at 1:39am. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Jan 2.

Great Articles (click on "all notes")

Articles of interest to help you in your journey toward losing weight and gaining shape are posted on the "all notes" page from time to time.

Fat loss is a challenge but 15 kilos lost in 15 weeks is a great start. Our EFT daily tapping got me to the gym.  Photo taken Dec. 31, 2008

 
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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Jun 20, 2008 at 4:51am. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Jun. 15, 2009.

Power foods

Power Foods

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Created by Ilana Wolfson Apr 19, 2009 at 5:10pm. Last updated by Ilana Wolfson Apr. 19, 2009.

Fabulous Goal Setting Formula

Great goal setting is the most important thing you can do to get on and stay on your path to success!

 

To know where you are going, to create a guiding light to steer by, write out and use y

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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Oct 18, 2008 at 1:18am. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Dec. 29, 2008.

Coming into alignment about food from Abraham-Hicks

Zannie found us this wonderful item from Abraham, as brought to us via Esther Hicks.  Here is the suggested way to come into energy alignment with the food we eat.


From the Mexican Cruise, Jan 2008


Before you put yourself before the banquets where you’ll eat tonight, do your Vibrational Warm-up. Spend at least as much time as you’ll spend in the eating of the meal, and by that we mean, you’ll actually have a less than 15 minutes all added together
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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Oct 28, 2008 at 11:31pm. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Oct. 28, 2008.

When Success is Slow

When Success is Slow, What Can You Do?
by Jack Canfield


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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Sep 26, 2008 at 9:54am. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Sep. 26, 2008.

Exercise for Energy: Workouts That Work

Want to fight fatigue? Here's what kind of exercise - and how much - is best.

By Colette Bouchez
WebMD Weight Loss Clinic - Feature

There you are, sitting on the couch, remote in hand, thinking, "I should be exercising. If only I weren't too tired to get off the couch!" Indeed, fatigue is among the most common complaints doctors hear. But you might be su

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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Sep 13, 2008 at 10:35pm. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Sep. 13, 2008.

I'd rather die laughing

I'd Rather Die Laughing!
by Alfonso Castaneira

I've spent too much of my life being a serious bore! -- I said to myself some time ago. I was looking at my somber self in the mirror and was wondering what had happened to the wonderful, laughing, loving, not-a-care-in-the-world kid I used to be. I remembered when I used to be able to make everybody laugh . . . my dad, my mom, m

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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Aug 15, 2008 at 3:15pm. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Aug. 15, 2008.

Tips and ideas to help burn fat

Live the Fat Burning Life


WebMD Feature from "Prevention" Magazine

By Myatt Murphy

Having trouble shedding pounds as you a

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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Aug 14, 2008 at 11:10pm. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Aug. 14, 2008.

The only abs movement you'll ever need

The Only Ab Movement You'll Ever Need 

Posted Fri, Jun 20, 2008   From www.self.com

I know, five-minute abs sounds like the latest infomercial promise, but if you put in that much time per day, I guarantee you'll get a tight, toned tummy fast. Especially if you spend it doing bicycle crunches. If you're going to do only o

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Created by Dr. Nili Marcia Aug 11, 2008 at 6:39pm. Last updated by Dr. Nili Marcia Aug. 11, 2008.

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Very Important Question

One of the most important questions you can ask is
“Does this suit my intentions?”

The word “this” refers to any choice you are making that affects your goals. In the store, when you have those cookies in your hand, ask yourself, “Does buying these suit my intentions?” If you are thinking of watching a movie rather than listening to today's EFT session, ask yourself “Does this choice suit my intentions?”

Let your higher self answer the question and make your best choice.

The more you ask the question, the more you will be guided by that smart voice that helps you maintain your commitment to yourself.

http://www.eftbyworkshop.cc/eft-workshops.taf

There is a wonderful EFT workshops listing site at http://www.eftbyworkshop.cc/eft-workshops.taf

Find workshops to attend live or by teleclass or list your own workshops.

Gary Craig, EFT founder on what is EFT?


EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques)
is a method to release negative feelings naturally.
It is an emotional form of acupressure.
With your fingertips, you tap certain energy points on your body while you are "tuned in" to your problem.

Gary Craig, the founder of EFT:

"I hope this doesn't sound too grandiose, but I've been doing energy healing work since 1991 and my jaw still drops at the results. I've lost count of the number of phobias, panic/anxiety attacks, traumatic memories, guilt, grief and physical ailments that have been elegantly relieved (often in minutes) by this procedure. Even though EFT violates just about every conventional belief out there, the results remain remarkable. EFT isn't perfect, of course. We don't get 100%. But it usually works well and the results are sometimes spectacular. It often works where nothing else will.

We are still learning why EFT works so well. It centers around the profound effects of the body's subtle energies using the theory that the cause of all negative emotions is a disruption in the body's energy system. Accordingly, EFT is an emotional form of acupuncture except that we don't use needles. Instead, we tap with the fingertips to stimulate certain meridian energy points while the client is "tuned in" to the problem.

The subtle energies that circulate throughout the body have been largely ignored (until recently) by western scientists. As a result, our use of them for emotional and spiritual healing has been sparse at best. With EFT, however, we consider these subtle energies to be the front running cause of emotional upsets. As a result, we generate results that are FAR beyond those of conventional methods."
 

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